problems at home

so i've never really had that 'mother-daughter' relationship with my mom. and it really pisses me off how she just thinks she can be like the meanest person in the world to me. like i seriously am going to tell my dad i wanna live with him,thats the 'up' of having split parents (you can either run to one or the other). like she tells me to do everything, like SHE won't do the dishes for like 25742572572574 weeks (not literally), then she'll make ME do them. like wtf, do you not have time to do them yourself when you are the one using all of those dishes, well you ad your 2 sons. like i will just be sitting in my room doing my homework MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS, then she'll slam open the door and start bitching at me about something else, like does she have something wrong in the head. like when i tell her i wanna move out she starts screaming say how i can't and all of this crap, liek she's the biggest hypocrite ever, and i'll tell you why: well, she always tells me stories about her friends kids and how they chose to live at their mom/dads house because they're old enough, and half those kids are twelve, the hypocritical thing about that, is that she tells me how her friends kids choose, but when i tell her where I want to live, SHE SAYS NO, like wtf, you make this big whole deal about them choosing and i can't ?!, like i'm FOURTEEN, TWO years older then those kids so what the hell is your problem. and another thing, she's ALWAYS sitting on the computer talking on msn and yahoo, like what 33 year old mom sits 'chatting' to guys she's never met on the computer, and PLUS she gives those guys her number and crap, like my mom went to new york a couple of months ago, wanna know why ?!, becuase she went there to meet a GUY she met off this black planet website crap thing, like she's seriosuly a huge ass bitch, i wanna like slap her sometimes. she really just drives me nuts. and like, i'm SUPER sensitive, and when i'm there the things she does just makes me feel like crap, so i start to cry, like yesterday i went to her house to pick up something, and we started fighting and guess what ?!, I STARTED TO CRY ONCE AGAIN. like jfgafgjhgfsgfhjGFKJSHDFAGSDBFUWEYGFJSDBFUYAWFhjgdsuyfgaw <--- thats how she makes me feel, thats the only way to really describe it.